Not That Easy
Gee, you'd think is would be easy to place an add for sexual adventure and just hook up with someone. NOT. Well, not if you want to guard your safety and meet with men that have some intelligence and class. I am finding that many just don't have the guts to follow through. That doesn't bother me in itself, but it does bother me in regard to the time I waste with emails, phone calls and meeting them for coffee. I know I have to expect a certain amount of this, but it is still very irritating to waste time on someone who has no intention of actually meeting for the ass play.
And dating on the side is not easy either, but then when have I ever done things the easy way? I haven't. I met with a nice young man Monday, I shall call him Sean. He's had a good amount of experience in D/s and might be wanting a more aggressive Domme than I am. He hasn't contacted me since meeting, so that might be a sign he decided against getting together. If that's the case, it's all good. I have a feeling him and I don't have the right connection anyway. He might possibly feel the same.
After meeting Sean for coffee I had a vanilla date with a man I'll call Jed. He's an engineering student, (in his 40's) and I had a nice time with him. We just had coffee, but when we went out to have a smoke, which the only place to go was in his truck - he was all over me. He even wanted to go get a room, of which I declined. I did give him a blow job and he really got excited over that! I was rather surprised at how loud he was when he came - which is a huge turn on. Doesn't hurt that he's a great kisser too. He said he wanted to get together again, so we shall see. After what happened with a man I got together with a coupla weeks ago, I'll call him Dan, I don't put a lot of high hopes on these relationship dates. Dan was a man I met online and was super interested in meeting me, which we hooked up for a few drinks and did end up having sex. Big mistake. I haven't heard but a few fleeting words from him since. I should know better, but when ya got a couple drinks in ya, the desire comes to the surface and with me, I've always been an easy lay when I'm drunk. With Jed it was different and eventhough I gave him a blow job, I'm hoping we can least get together and be friends. I just don't understand men. I've been left in the dust because I wouldn't have sex with a guy and then blown off because I did. I am done with the games and have decided the best way to not get all hung up on one guy is to date a whole bunch of them. And that is what I am doing.
Am meeting with a client for coffee tomorrow - a married man who I will call Mick. He's a sweetie and I have a good feeling about him. He and I think on the same level and I hope the chemistry between us works. My friendship with Gary is working out wonderful and I had a long phone chat with him this morning. We will probably get together soon and I no longer consider him a client, but more of a friend. He wants to join me for the man on man play, so that will be helpful.
I ran my add again last night and the emails are flooding in. I know that most won't pan out, but oh well....guess I just have to get used to that and hope I don't waste too much time on them.